With many different therapy approaches, it can be difficult to understand their differences and how they support people with ADHD.
By Ryan DeCook, LCSW • Clinically reviewed by Alyssa Peechatka, Ph.D.
Maybe you know that you’re ready for ADHD therapy, but the thought of figuring it all out can make you want to stop before you’ve even started. Between choosing a therapist, navigating insurance, and deciding which type of therapy actually helps, it can feel like too much. Where do you even begin?
Research can help recommend the best therapies, and simple tools can make it easier to find the right therapist. When you filter out the noise and narrow the options, the first step forward feels far less overwhelming.
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Therapy works on ADHD in a few different ways. It can help people to work with (not against) their ADHD. Designing the environment — like school, home, or work — with more simplicity and fewer distractions can create less friction. For children and adolescents, recommended treatment often includes involvement from parents and schools to help reduce barriers.
Skill-building can involve using external tools to support mental tasks, breaking down tasks into smaller pieces, and improving time management. These approaches attempt to help people with ADHD compensate and modify their behavior according to their neurological differences. Learning tools to regulate and soothe emotions can be another important component of ADHD treatment.
In some therapeutic approaches, individuals are supported in changing their underlying thoughts that lead to greater emotional distress or shame. When someone beats themselves up over their ADHD symptoms, it is useful to reframe those thoughts to reduce the intense emotions.
Research shows that people who engage in ADHD-focused therapy experience meaningful improvements in various areas of life compared to those who do not. Many people who’ve participated in ADHD therapy also describe meaningful personal benefits.
One college student shared the effects for them: “My transformation from class clown to successful university student was a long and challenging process that was fueled by my determination to prove I was not just a slow learner or hyper kid, but instead I, too, can be a university graduate.”
CBT is one of the most well-researched and strongly supported treatments for ADHD. The cognitive part of the treatment helps people identify unhelpful thoughts that fuel negative emotions, procrastination, and negative self-image. They learn to examine these thoughts, challenge them, and develop a more balanced perspective, which can reduce the intensity of these emotions and improve motivation.
The behavioral component of CBT helps develop skills and coping strategies for things such as time management, organization, and planning that are often impacted by ADHD. Tools such as breaking down tasks (chunking), scheduling, reminder lists, and visual aids for time management are all used to help make these areas of life easier.
CBT is best for adolescents and adults who want structure, homework activities, and concrete tools. It can also be very useful when someone also is struggling with an anxiety or depressive disorder because the core cognitive skills learned and practiced in CBT are effective at reducing depression and anxiety as well.
Behavioral therapy is best used with children and adolescents. It can take on different forms — typically involving parents (behavioral parent training, or BPT), teachers (behavioral classroom management, or BCM), and other supportive adults. These approaches help supportive adults understand how to reduce the environmental challenges for children and reward positive behaviors. They put a heavy emphasis on improving the external environment of the child.
It’s a key approach recommended by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). The AAP recommends BPT as a first-line response for preschoolers; and a multimodal approach (meds and behavioral strategies) for school-age children.
Mindfulness-based interventions teach present-moment awareness, acceptance of thoughts and emotions without judgment, and attention regulation techniques to address ADHD symptoms. Practicing these skills increases awareness of lapses in attention and moments of emotional reactivity, so that people can gently return their focus to the present moment or task at hand.
Emerging evidence supports this approach in managing ADHD symptoms. It can provide a great secondary option to CBT or medications, especially for those who enjoy mindfulness and meditation-based approaches.
MCT is a type of group therapy that uses principles of CBT. It is focused on improving the time-management, planning, and organizational skills of the participants. It helps to bring awareness to challenging patterns and then matching them with skills and strategies to help improve those areas.
The program teaches specific skills including time-blocking, breaking tasks into smaller pieces, organizational strategies, and addressing negative thoughts that interfere with effective self-management. It has shown significant benefit for those who go through the 12-week protocol. This is useful for people seeking to build tangible skills and gain emotional validation through the group setting.
Now that you’re aware of some of the most research-supported therapies, the next step is exploring which options may be the best fit for you. Many people start by considering which ADHD symptoms impact them most. Treatment is more effective when it’s matched to your most impactful symptoms.
If you struggle mostly with attention and being present, mindfulness may be a good match. If you struggle with time-management and don’t have any skills to help, then you might want to prioritize behavioral skill-building focused therapy like CBT or MCT.
You also can decide if you want individual or group therapy. CBT can be delivered both ways. Group formats may be better for core ADHD symptoms while individual therapy may be better for emotional regulation. Mindfulness-based therapy can also be individual or group-based, while MCT is typically delivered in a group setting. Additionally, studies show that combining therapy with medication can often produce the best outcomes, so it may be worth speaking with a psychiatrist or psychiatric nurse practitioner.
Thankfully, you don’t have to figure out all of this on your own. Therapists who specialize in ADHD can help you to identify the components of your ADHD and suggest which method of treatment would be appropriate for what you’re experiencing.
It is essential, then, to find the right therapist who can help you learn more about your ADHD, pick the most effective type of therapy, and work through those methods to help manage your ADHD symptoms.
To connect with the right therapist, you’ll ideally have some criteria to help narrow down your options. First, you’l want someone who specializes in ADHD and offers the research-based type of therapies you are interested in. Part of your criteria could include any demographics preferences (race, gender, age, etc.) and ensuring that they accept your insurance.
Finding the right therapist is easier than you think. A great place to start is reaching out to your insurance company directly. They can give you a list of providers who are in-network and accept your insurance. You can also do a Google or AI search for quality therapists in your area who work with ADHD.
The quickest way to find a therapist and have the most control over your choices is using therapist directories such as Headway. They offer filters that can help you pare down to the right therapist for you.
One of the most helpful strategies for people with ADHD is breaking complex tasks into smaller, more manageable steps. We’ve narrowed therapy options down to those most supported by research. We’ve discussed simple ways to find a therapist. The task of finding the right ADHD therapist is now smaller than you thought.
A tool like Headway’s therapist directory can help you filter based on your preferences to find the right therapist who will support you. Take your first step today and discover the benefits on the other side.
This content is for general informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical, legal, financial, or professional advice. All decisions should be made at the discretion of the individual or organization, in consultation with qualified clinical, legal, or other appropriate professionals.
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